This is the podcast version of the article What Women Want: Towards a New Psychology of Love, Sex and Gender Relations. Abstract This paper is an attempt to redefine the concepts as “masculine” and “feminine” not as gender roles, but as psychological archetypes that affect all human relationships whether we are aware of them or not. It extends David Deida’s ideas on sexual polarity into the realm of human loving: because if it is true, as per Deida, that people have a preferred sexual polarity; and if it is true, as per Jerry Judd, that “love is a response to need”, then masculine
This is the audio version of the article Online Dating and the Man/Woman Game: My Story It is the introduction chapter to my next book, Online Dating for Conscious Men. It tells my personal story, of how I came into this information, and gives a summary (the "30,000 foot view") of my dating strategy and developmental model.
01 – Steven Fearing on Evolutionary Psychology, Mate Selection Science, and its impact on modern-day men and women
In this inaugural edition of the Authentic Singles Dating podcast, I am interviewing Steven Fearing, author of the “Mating Straight Talk” blog, on his decades of research on evolutionary psychology and mate selection science, and the impact of this research on man/woman dynamics in the 21st century. This has been a most delightful conversation for me, in part because Steven and I are some kind of intellectual soul brothers, not to mention aging horny dudes, and in part because we were able to find large correlations between my work as both a philosopher of love and sex and now a